Friday, April 25, 2014

Social Issue Blog--Abortion

"The removal of an embryo or fetus from the uterus in order to end a pregnancy," is how Dictionary.com defines the word abortion. On paper it doesn't seem like too much to fuss about, but in reality, abortion is so much more than a "removal of an embryo". It is a subject that people have very strong opinions about. Are you pro life? Or are you pro choice? That question alone can end relationships and stir up much controversy. The truth of the matter is that no matter what side you're on, abortion is very serious, and people in this country should be much more educated about it.

Every year in America, approximately 1.21 million abortions take place. This number may seem very high, but it's actually been declining since the 1980's. Abortion was very popular around this time because of the infamous "Roe vs. Wade" trial. The argument in this court case was that antiabortion laws violated women's constitutional rights of privacy. You can see the movement of feminism with this case as well. It made women feel very powerful in the sense that they wouldn't have to take on the role of the typical house wife. If they didn't want a child, they could get rid of it and get on with their lives. The opposing side to this case of course is that abortion is murder. Many people believe that as soon as conception takes place, life has begun, and for doctors or other means of medicine to end that life is considered killing the child. Ronald Reagan, a man who opposed abortion said, "I've noticed that everyone who is for abortion has already been born."  Weather you're pro life or pro choice, this quote makes you stop and think about what is really going on with abortion.

There are reasons for the steady decline of abortions taking place in the United States. One is the steady decline of teenage pregnancies. The rate of teen pregnancies has declined by 42% between the years of 1990 and 2008. This could be do to the availability and prevalent use of contraceptives. Since the number of teen pregnancies has dropped, so has the number of abortions among the adolescent age group. According to numbers that were taken in 2008, 26% of all teen pregnancies end with abortion, which is almost 60% lower than when it was at its peak in 1988.

Figure 1: Birth rates per 1,000 females ages 15-19, by race/ethnicity, 1990-2012


Another reason for the decline in abortion rates is that there are more reliable forms of contraceptives than there were 20-30 years ago. The intrauterine device (IUD), for example, was a good alternative for women who did not want to get pregnant, but didn't want to take pills or have surgery done. This would obviously help because less women are having "unwanted" pregnancies, and therefore have no need to get an abortion. In general, the accessibility to get abortions has decreased recently as well. According to the National Abortion Federation, 87% of counties in the US have no identifiable abortion provider. To someone who is pro choice, this would be appalling because it's becoming very difficult for a woman to have a medically "safe" abortion. If a woman doesn't have an abortion clinic nearby, wouldn't she be more likely to take matters into her own hands and try to eliminate her pregnancy by some other means? Or would the unavailability of a clinic make her go through with the pregnancy, and therefore force her to have a child that she didn't want in the first place? The Access Initiative Project was started by the National Abortion Federation in order to improve some of these set backs for women who wish to get abortions. 

A sociologist would have a field day discussing abortion. So many questions can be asked. Why do women even consider abortion? What social forces influence and shape their decision making? There is a picture that enters every woman's head at least once in her lifetime. She will grow up, fall in love with Prince Charming, get married to him and have beautiful children. Women envision their lives going a particular way, and when things don't go that way, it can get messy. It's the most messy when you're a teenager and still trying to figure out who you want to be and how you want your life to turn out. That's the reason why most abortions take place in the teen/adolescent age group. When teenage girls get pregnant, an enormous amount of fear swoops in. What will their parents think? How will she provide for this child? Will the father stick around to help out? Or did he bail already? You had your whole life ahead of you and it all comes to a halt because you are now responsible for bringing a child into the world. And it's not just delivering a baby. Your body needs to undergo some serious changes in order to carry a baby for nine months. It is a sacrifice and a huge commitment. It doesn't quite seem fair for the girl. If a boy gets a girl pregnant, he doesn't have to worry about anything. If he's a responsible person, he'll support the girl and help her. But there's really nothing stopping him from pretending like the whole thing never happened. There's so much pressure. How would a girl who didn't think she was ready to have a child handle that pressure? Most would handle it by aborting the pregnancy.  

What many people fail to realize is the psychological components that accompany a woman who has an abortion. A study in Finland showed that women who aborted their pregnancy were six times more likely to commit suicide than women who did not have abortions. Other studies have shown that when a women carries her baby full term, she is much less likely to have suicidal thoughts or commit suicide than if she were to abort the pregnancy. Some might think that if an unexpectedly pregnant woman did not have an abortion, she would be more likely to have suicidal thoughts because of all the stress and uncertainty that comes along with pregnancy; however, as the baby develops inside the mother, an emotional bond begins to grow that actually diminishes the risk of suicide. It is statistically proven that women who have abortions are more likely to experience depression, drug abuse, and post traumatic stress disorder. There are other stories, though, of women who feel that having an abortion was the best decision they could have made. They feel as if having the child at that certain time in their life would've prevented them from living the life they were meant for. 

No matter how much research is done, no matter what statistics are showing, I don't think as a nation we will ever agree on what is best. Pro life? Pro choice? People are too divided and too set in their own opinions. What we can do as a nation is to educate people about abortion because it's important. We can educate young people to be aware of what is happening when they decide to have sex. Sex leads to pregnancy, and if that pregnancy is unwanted, it can lead to abortion, which can potentially lead to suicide and other issues. It's more than just, "Oh, I don't want a baby." It's more than just, "That girl was dumb and got herself knocked up." It's human life. And that is nothing to joke about.







Thursday, April 17, 2014

Attend A Meeting

I attended the Drag Show during Pride Week here at Tech. I had never been to one before, nor did I know much about drag, so I decided it would be a good choice for this specific posting. It was definitely different than what I was expecting. To explain why attending this event was out of my comfort zone, I should probably give some background information about myself...

I grew up a WELS Lutheran. I went to church every Sunday. I attended a WELS Lutheran grade school and continued on to a WELS Lutheran high school. Even the town I'm from is a fairly "Christian" area. I pretty much lived in a bubble, meaning that I'd not being exposed to homosexuals, transgenders, or anything besides heterosexual people. If you met someone, you just assumed they were straight. You didn't have to think about being politically correct by asking someone if they had a "partner" versus specifically a boyfriend or girlfriend. Of course I knew what the term "gay" referred to. I knew of people that were gay, but no one personally. I knew what drag queens were, but I don't think I had seen any in real life before this. The point is, I've never really been around the gay community until I came to school here. Homosexuality is not something that I celebrate or take pride in, but I am in no way, shape, or form a "homophobe" or think that homosexuals are less of human beings, or that they should rot in hell, like most people assume I would since I'm a Lutheran.  At the drag show, however, I felt very awkward and uncomfortable. It was on the day the state of Michigan legalized gay marriage, so that made everyone even more fired up and excited than they normally would be. Honestly, it was overwhelming. For the first 18 years of my life I had not been around homosexual people (generally speaking). So when I was in a room surrounded by people of that lifestyle, I felt like nothing. Literally like a speck of dirt on the ground. I think I felt this way because it was so "in my face", for lack of better words. I have good friends up here that are homosexuals, but it's not like the only thing we talk about is their sexual preference. I know that they're gay, but it's not like I treat them any differently because of it, or like I can't be friends with them anymore because they have a different sexual orientation than me. But when it comes right down to it, I believe that the lifestyle they are living is wrong. This would be the time where most people would jump on my back and accuse me of being a bigot Jesus freak who is a terrible person and has her head up her butt. I was actually afraid to write this post because I thought I would get a bad grade since I'm saying I believe homosexuality is a sin. But you know what? So is stealing, lying, being greedy, committing adultery, and a whole list of other things. I can truthfully say I have committed all these sins, and therefore am no better or worse than homosexuals. The truth is that we all sin everyday. Many people fail to realize that even though I believe that homosexual people are sinners, I also believe that I am a sinner. And without God the Father sending his son Jesus to live a perfect life, die on a cross, and rise from the dead on Easter Sunday, I would have absolutely no chance of receiving forgiveness and would not be able to enter heaven someday.

I guess I didn't mean to lecture you about the WELS Lutheran faith, but I just wanted to clue you in how important my faith is to me. And that's why I felt so uncomfortable at this event. For the first time in my life I felt like my faith meant absolutely nothing. I felt like if people there knew I was a Christian they would throw me out of the university. I was actually kind of scared to be there. But the real world isn't like the bubble that I grew up in. The real world is full of people who have much different beliefs and values than I. Just because they don't believe the same things as me, will that prevent me from working with them? Will that make me build a house deep in the woods so I don't have to associate myself with them? Of course not.

The drag show was all about being proud of who you are. At this drag show, if you were gay, lesbian, trans, bisexual, you didn't have to be scared that others would make fun of you, because I'm sure if they're open about their sexuality, they've received some harshness/bullying from the outside world. It was almost like the social tables had turned a little bit. Instead of a gay person feeling reserved or uncomfortable about who they are, I was the one who felt very self-conscious about who I am and what I believe in. Even though I felt uncomfortable and if given the chance, I probably won't attend one again, it probably wasn't the worst thing I could have done. It opened my eyes a little bit. This is what the world looks like today. I can't run and hide from it, or pretend like it doesn't exist. It is our human nature to be prejudice. Homosexual people are judged  and ridiculed all the time, but our society is moving away from that. I am judged because of my religion, but mostly because people fail to realize what my faith is actually about. The only one who has a right to judge us is God, because only he can see what is in our hearts. I'm glad I don't live in my little bubble anymore, but I also will not abandon my faith while living in today's society.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Breaking A Gender Norm

Some gender norms our group discussed: 1) Guys wear loose fitting, baggy clothes. Girls wear tight clothes. 2) Girls wear make-up. Guys do not wear make-up. 3) Guys are more physical. Girls are more reserved.

On Sunday, March 30, my group and I decided to go to the library to carry out our gender norm experiment. Ryan Benson (our test subject) and I walked into the main area by the windows where most people sit. We tried to pick a table that wasn't hidden by anything so that most people would be able to see what we were about to do. When we sat down, we took out some study materials, and also a bag of nail polish. Ryan picked out one of the colors and I then proceeded to paint his nails. The other members of our group were positioned in different spots around the area in order to observe the reactions of all the people. I was trying so hard not to laugh. It was embarrassing for me so I can only imagine how embarrassed Ryan must have been! I didn't look around to see others' reactions because I didn't want it to look staged at all, but I did notice the reactions of some girls that were sitting at a table right next to us. The girls would look over occasionally and snicker to each other and then look away. It seemed as if they were uncomfortable and felt awkward. After a few minutes they actually got up and left! I don't know if that was because they finished their homework for the night or if they were just that put off by what was going on. Danna was one of our observers and she noticed that so many other tables were laughing and looking over at us. There was a group of football players at one of the tables and she said that table had the most noticeable reactions. Apparently people were even pulling out their phones to take pictures and snapchats of what we were doing. After I was done painting all ten fingernails, we asked Ryan if he would be willing to move over to the couches in the main area and paint his toenails. He didn't want to go that far... quite understandable. We did, however, go to different parts of the library to see if we could get any other reactions. We went to the second floor, but only got a few weird looks, nothing extreme. Then we went down to the first floor computer area and only got a few looks. So we definitely got the best stuff from the first floor main area.

It isn't exactly normal for a girl to paint her nails in the library out in the open, but especially not normal AT ALL for a boy to do that. Girls paint their nails to be girly and to feel pretty, kind of like wearing different styles of make-up. Unless you're a member of the punk band Green Day, it's socially not "okay" for a guy to paint their nails. Guys are socially constructed to be manly and rough around the edges, not to paint their nails in order to enhance their style. If a typical male today noticed another male who had pink nail polish on, I would guarantee the first word to pop into his head would be, gay. Why? Why does the color of a man's nails decide if he's a homosexual or not? Because it's just been taught from generation to generation that girls can paint their nails but guys do not. I thought it was so interesting that Dr. Winkler brought up her son and how nail polish is like the coolest thing to him. I can remember when I was little and my mom used to paint my nails, my little brother would always want to get his nails painted too. My dad thought that was ridiculous so he only allowed his pinkies to be painted or something minor like that, haha. But it's just interesting that when boys are little, they don't usually know about gay stereotypes and other things. To them, nail polish is just a cool color that you can put on your body. It has nothing to do with their sexuality.